fs: fix repeated copy of directory with symlinks

[haramj]

Fixes: #65097

Repeatedly copying a directory that contains a symlink to an unrelated
directory fails on the second copy with ERR_FS_CP_EINVAL because the
symlink target is mistaken for a self-referential copy.

Root cause

Both the JS (isSrcSubdir in lib/internal/fs/cp/cp.js) and the C++
(isInsideDir in src/node_file.cc) guards are prefix-inclusive, so when
the source symlink and the already-copied destination symlink resolve to
the same directory, the "copy to a subdirectory of self" check fires on
the identical target.

Fix

• Treat identical symlink targets as a self-copy only when the target is
  the destination root or one of its ancestors; identical targets that are
  unrelated to the destination root are allowed to be copied again.
• Compare targets using canonicalized paths (weakly_canonical) in C++
  so relative-vs-absolute representations and macOS /var vs
  /private/var are handled correctly.
• Thread the top-level destination root through the JS copy recursion via
  the internal options object.

Unlike the earlier attempt in #65099, the existing self-referential
protections are kept: a symlink pointing to the destination root or an
ancestor of it still fails with ERR_FS_CP_EINVAL.

Tests

New regression tests (test-fs-cp-sync-symlink-repeated-copy and
test-fs-cp-async-symlink-repeated-copy) cover both the C++ (no filter)
and JS (filter) paths with absolute and relative targets, each copied
twice, and verify the copied symlink still resolves to the original
target. Existing *-points-to-dest tests are unchanged and keep passing.

Validation

• make builds successfully.
• All test/parallel/test-fs-*.{mjs,js} (351 tests) pass, including the
  new regression tests and all *-points-to-dest tests.
• ESLint clean; git-clang-format reports no formatting changes.

[codecov]

Codecov Report

❌ Patch coverage is 70.73171% with 12 lines in your changes missing coverage. Please review.
✅ Project coverage is 90.12%. Comparing base (d6bbf57) to head (b91d82d).
⚠️ Report is 9 commits behind head on main.

Files with missing lines	Patch %	Lines
lib/internal/fs/cp/cp-sync.js	8.33%	11 Missing ⚠️
src/node_file.cc	94.73%	0 Missing and 1 partial ⚠️

Additional details and impacted files

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  Lines      251864   252233     +369     
  Branches    47354    47452      +98     
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+ Hits       227021   227313     +292     
- Misses      16180    16216      +36     
- Partials     8663     8704      +41     

Files with missing lines	Coverage Δ
lib/internal/fs/cp/cp.js	90.07% <100.00%> (+1.72%)	⬆️
src/node_file.cc	73.97% <94.73%> (-0.30%)	⬇️
lib/internal/fs/cp/cp-sync.js	57.14% <8.33%> (-1.47%)	⬇️

... and 40 files with indirect coverage changes

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